Where did my libido go?
there’s a reason your desire went quiet…
If you've ever wondered...
• Why am I never in the mood anymore?
• Why do I miss the woman I used to be?
• Why does sex feel like another thing on my to-do list?
• Why have hormones, supplements, books, and advice never really solved it?
• Is this just who I am now?
There are answers.
It didn’t happen overnight.
Somewhere between building a career, caring for everyone else, managing the mental load, navigating relationships, and living through years of stress, change, caregiving and putting yourself last...
Something changed.
Not because you don’t want intimacy.
But because something that once felt effortless now feels impossibly far away.
Maybe you’ve had your hormones checked. Tried supplements. Bought the toys. Read the books. Tried date nights. Questioned your relationship.
All you know is that many things don’t work for you anymore.
The question underneath all of it is:
Is this just who I am now?
Or even:
Are my days of being a sxual woman over?
They’re not.
But understanding what happened requires looking at far more than hormones.
Libido Is A Messenger of Something Deeper inside you.
let’s find out what that is.
Desire is not a “mood”.
The female sexual response is a complex ecosystem made of cells, relationships, psychology, identity, and life force.
Most approaches to libido fail because they treat one piece and call it the whole picture: hormones, or supplements, or relationship advice, or technique.
Rewilding Desire doesn't do that to women.
Over five days, you'll explore all five interconnected facets, from cells to soul, and the goal isn't to want sex again with your partner, or at all.
The goal is to understand your own erotic ecosystem and nourish it so completely that the conditions where desire can flourish become your way of being.
And when you’re living a juicy, turned-on delicious life…everybody wins. Especially YOU.
“Get your mojo back, ladies.”
I came into Eva’s programs after a nasty divorce. After 20 years of marriage and 3 kids, I was terrified and yet excited. Eva and the sisterhood she creates loved me back to life. I now feel confident, sexy, and have men chasing me. Even much younger men! The funny thing is - I thought I wanted another partnership, but now I just want to have fun! It’s finally MY time!”
- Helen Miranda, MBA, Investor
Why is Rewilding Desire Different?
Rewilding Desire is an intimate five-day immersion for women who are ready to reconnect with their bodies, their pleasure, and the parts of themselves that may have been lost. This isn't just about wanting sex again. It's about your whole relationship with desire.
This retreat is a beautiful, deeply restorative pause from ordinary life. But that’s not all…
Taught by two highly credentialed experts, you’ll learn why desire changes, what may be suppressing yours, and what your particular body and life need for libido to thrive.
We’re keeping the size intimate so you receive highly individualized attention from Eva and Maraya, and leave with a plan.
There will also be time to float in the pool, eat extraordinary food, lay on the beach, and have long conversations with fascinating women.
What You’ll Leave With…
✓ A clear understanding of why libido has faded, and how to restore the conditions that support it.
✓ A personalized roadmap for cultivating desire in everyday life.
✓ Practical somatic tools to regulate your nervous system and reconnect with your body.
✓ Greater confidence communicating your needs, boundaries, and desires.
✓ Deep connection with a community of women who truly understand.
Welcome to The
Rewilding Desire Retreat
an intimate immersion to discover your authentic, erotic self.
When: January 7–12, 2027 ( 6 days /5 nights )
Where: Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, in a private luxury villa all for us.
Who: An intimate circle of 12 women ready to go deep, and claim their true erotic nature.
What's included:
- 6 days /5 nights of life-changing education, embodiment and connection with women like you.
- Two gourmet chef-prepared meals each day & luxury lodging.
- Private snorkeling & whale watching excursion in Bahía de Banderas.
- Full 5-pillar curriculum, facilitated by Maraya & Eva
Retreat Investment
This isn't just a retreat fee. It's the price of admission back into your own skin, and the sooner you say yes, the sooner you step into the life you want more of.
Early Bird - Reserve by October 15
$5,000 program + $2,500 room & board
$7,500 total
Reserve by October 31
$5,500 program + $2,500 room & board
$8,000 total
November Registration
$6,500 program + $2,500 room & board
$9,000 total
Come With a Friend & Save $1,000 Each
Share a double room with a friend and each receive $1,000 off your program price.
**Payment plans are available, please inquire ~ we want this to be accessible to women who need it.
The Location
A private luxury villa in the heart of Puerto Vallarta, with ocean views and sunsets that will take your breath away.
Because it’s high whale-watching season, you can watch humback whales breach right from our deck.
Picture sun-washed gathering rooms in neutral tones and organic textures, a dining table long enough for the whole circle to gather, an outdoor bar pouring the villa's signature cucumber habanero margarita, and a staff so warm and attentive you'll feel like family before the week is out.
Have a room all to yourself, or share with a friend.
This is where you'll unwind, integrate, and come home to your body.
Daily Schedule
Day 1: Arrival: Grounding & Safety.
Evening: Sink into the villa as the sun drops into the Pacific. Meet the women who will hold this week with you over a scrumptious welcome feast, and an opening circle that lets your body finally exhale.
Day 2: The Science of Desire.
Morning: Somatic movement and sensual dance practice. Ocean-view coffee, then a teaching on the actual science of female libido and arousal, the hormones, nervous system, and brain chemistry, so you finally understand how your body works, and why it's been doing exactly what it's built to do.
Afternoon: Attunement work, to a partner, to yourself, to the parts of you that have been waiting to be met. Free time to swim, nap, journal or shop.
Evening: A long dinner at the villa's grand table, where connection keeps unfolding.
Day 3: Erotic Psychology - Unleashing Desire.
Morning: Sensual movement practice to release what the body's been holding.
Afternoon: Group work to shed the beliefs and inherited shame that have quietly decided what you're allowed to want.
Evening: Storytelling by firelight, and a circle that goes deep.
Day 4: Becoming Her.
Morning: An embodiment practice devoted to the woman who is emerging.
Afternoon: Archetypal exercises to summon the lost or disavowed parts of self that hold erotic aliveness.
Evening: A celebration dinner honoring who's emerging.
Day 5: Coming Alive
Morning: A somatic practice to access sxual energy in the pelvis and body.
Afternoon: Eros and the Ocean: Private whale watching excursion in Bahia de Banderas.
Evening: The experience peaks: dancing, celebration, and a closing ceremony that honors just how alive you are.
Day 6: Integration & Departure
Morning: A slow morning and a final circle to gather everything you're carrying home.
Afternoon: Departures, and goodbyes that feel more like see you soons.
Turn-On Takes more than just lingerie, toys, or ‘being in the mood’.
Desire is an intelligent interplay between your erotic psyche, your nervous system, brain and hormones.
Rewilding Desire Incorporates the five Facets of Female Desire:
facet 1
Biology & Body: The hormonal and cellular truth of your body, and the nervous system safety it needs.
facet 2
Relational Connection: Desire is relational, built through attunement to a partner, and to yourself.
facet 3
Erotic Psychology: Untangling the beliefs that quietly decide what you're allowed to want, so desire can finally be yours, without apology.
facet 4
Self & Identity: Greet the parts of yourself you haven't fully met yet, and knowing what she actually wants.
facet 5
Life Energy & Eros: Your libido runs on the same vitality that fuels the rest of your life
MEet your Guides
Eva Clay, MSW, LCSW
I know this path because I’ve walked it.
Twice in my life I’ve struggled with low libido. Once, during my marriage - where I searched in a panic to fix what was ‘wrong’ with me, only now to understand it was the effects of trauma in the relationship. And again, during the five long years in the underworld of perimenopause.
In both instances, pleasure felt distant, and my identity as a sensual woman seemed to slip through my fingers. And even though I’m a sex therapist with all the tools and knowledge, I struggled, too.
Being the academic I am, I went deeper into the neuroscience, nervous system functioning, the science of sexual arousal, and somatic healing - specific to the female arousal system.
Because what worked for me at 35 didn’t work for me anymore at 50.
And what I found wasn’t just a new frontier of eros, it was power.
A little bit more about my background…
I’ve been a sex educator, licensed somatic psychotherapist, and intimacy coach for 25 years.
I’ve studied directly with teachers like Esther Perel, Bessel van der Kolk, and David Deida. I’ve practiced and hold certifications in Classical and Neo-Tantra, Sexual Polarity, Authentic Relating, Sexual Shamanism, Erotic Blueprints and so much more. I learned there is a technology to attraction and fulfilling sex that empowers us to have harmonious and passionate relationships for the long term.
This is now what I offer you, with passion: 25 years of practice and academic study combined with my own lived experience.
Through the menage a’ trois of soul, science and sex, and an elegant marriage of the profound with the playful, I’m on a mission to inspire your intimate life.
May your relationships be wildly fulfilling, deeply devoted, and endlessly enchanted.
I’m told I give good permission.
Maraya Brown, CNM, MSN
I've spent more than two decades kneeling at the edge of women's most intimate thresholds.
As a Yale-trained Certified Nurse Midwife, Functional Medicine Practitioner and hormone expert, I've held women's hands through labor, loss, and through the terrifying and holy moment a woman becomes someone new. There is no more intimate work than midwifery, and nothing has taught me more about what a woman's body is asking for when she is at her most vulnerable.
So when my own clients - brilliant, accomplished women - started telling me their bodies felt like strangers, their energy had vanished, their desire had gone quiet, I recognized the threshold. Just a different one.
Midlife is its own kind of labor. And most women go through it alone, equipped with nothing but conflicting advice and the quiet fear that this is just what happens now.
I refuse to let that be the story.
For more than twenty years, I've worked across federally funded clinics, functional medicine practices, and international health missions learning what women's bodies actually need, not what a textbook says they should need. I founded The Women's Vibrancy Code to bring that same rigor and reverence to the chapter no one prepared us for: hormones, energy, libido, confidence, and vitality.
This is what I bring to you: the clinical precision of a Yale-trained practitioner, and the reverence of someone who has spent her whole career on her knees at the threshold of women's most sacred transitions.
May you walk through this chapter more whole, more vibrant, and more yourself than when you began.
“You don’t need to accept low libido as normal.”
Maraya was the first person in the medical community to look at my results and say, “This is real; this is why you’re feeling this way, and now let’s fix it.” No one had seen those things before. I had accepted a new normal of low libido that wasn’t normal at all.
- Kate Peris, Stylist, Vogue Magazine
“I no longer put myself last.”
I tend to put everyone else on the front burner - my business, my family - and I always get the leftovers. That's what made me pause. I realized I wouldn’t feel better unless I change that. And I deserve it. I wanted to reclaim my energy and my libido, and Maraya has helped me do exactly that!
- Wanda Watson, Accounting & Tax Firm Owner
FAQs
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YES. It’s a perfect time to transform old beliefs and replace them with new, empowering, pleasure-full practices that shift your “story”.
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This is precisely the belief the retreat is designed to interrupt. If your calendar has no room for five days
devoted to the thing underneath everything else you do, that scarcity is worth looking at directly — with
us, in the room, rather than alone at your desk. Five days is also, deliberately, the minimum needed for
real nervous system change to take hold; anything shorter tends to just be a nice trip.
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Most women who join us have. This retreat isn't another technique to add to the pile. It's the first time the
clinical piece (why this is happening in your body) and the somatic piece (how to actually feel different,
not just understand it intellectually) are held together, in person, over enough consecutive days for
something to actually shift. That combination is what most approaches are missing.
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Absolutely. All of our content is trauma-informed, and designed to support the unique journey of trauma survivors. If you have significant unresolved trauma, we do suggest to attend concurrent trauma therapy.
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Absolutely! In fact, we emphasize that turn-on, desire and libido is all for YOU, no one else, and teach you how pleasure is your most vital nutrient.
“I tried everything, but the medical system failed me.”
I came to Eva exasperated, I tried everything from hormones to supplements - you name it. What Eva helped me understand is how interconnected my mind and emotions are to my body. I didn’t realize that unhealed issues with my partner were the real block, and that nothing was actually wrong with me. She changed my life and saved my marriage - I highly recommend getting into her programs!”
Helen Lee, M.D, Gastroenterologist
