Where did my libido go?
there’s a reason your desire went quiet…
If you've ever wondered...
• Why am I never in the mood anymore?
• Why do I miss the woman I used to be?
• Why does sex feel like another thing on my to-do list?
• Why have hormones, supplements, books, and advice never really solved it?
• Is this just who I am now?
There are answers.
It didn’t happen overnight.
Somewhere between building a career, caring for everyone else, managing the mental load, navigating relationships, and living through years of stress, change, caregiving and putting yourself last...
Something changed.
Not because you don’t want intimacy.
But because something that once felt effortless now feels impossibly far away.
Maybe you’ve had your hormones checked. Tried supplements. Bought the toys. Read the books. Tried date nights. Questioned your relationship.
All you know is that many things don’t work for you anymore.
The question underneath all of it is:
Is this just who I am now?
Or even:
Are my days of being a sxual woman over?
They’re not.
But understanding what happened requires looking at far more than hormones.
Libido Is A Message from your Soul to your body.
A Satisfying Erotic life Means Listening to Your Body
Desire isn't a switch that’s “on” or “off”.
And it’s not a “mood”.
The female sexual response is an ecosystem made of cells, relationships, psychology, identity, and life force.
Most approaches to libido fail because they treat one piece and call it the whole picture: hormones, or supplements, or relationship advice, or technique.
Rewilding Desire doesn't.
Over five days, you'll explore all five interconnected facets, from cells to soul, and the goal isn't to want sex again with your partner, or at all.
The goal is to understand your own erotic ecosystem and nourish it so completely that the conditions where desire can flourish become your way of being.
And when you’re living a juicy, turned-on delicious life…everybody wins.
“Get your mojo back, ladies.”
I came into Eva’s programs after a nasty divorce. After 20 years of marriage and 3 kids, I was terrified and yet excited. Eva and the Sisterhood loved me back to life. I now feel confident, sexy, and have men chasing me. Even much younger men! The funny thing is - I thought I wanted another partnership, but now I just want to have fun! It’s finally MY time!”
- Helen Miranda, MBA, Investor
Why is Rewilding Desire Different?
Rewilding Desire is an intimate five-day immersion for women who are ready to reconnect with their bodies, their pleasure, and the parts of themselves that may have been lost. This isn't just about wanting sex again. It's about your whole relationship with desire.
This retreat is a beautiful, deeply restorative pause from ordinary life. But that’s not all…
Taught by two highly credentialed experts, you’ll learn why desire changes, what may be suppressing yours, and what your particular body and life need for libido to thrive.
We’re keeping the size intimate so you receive highly individualized attention from Eva and Maraya, and leave with a plan.
There will also be time to float in the pool, eat extraordinary food, lay on the beach, and have long conversations with fascinating women.
What You’ll Leave With…
✓ A clear understanding of why libido has faded, and how to restore the conditions that support it.
✓ A personalized roadmap for cultivating desire in everyday life.
✓ Practical somatic tools to regulate your nervous system and reconnect with your body.
✓ Greater confidence communicating your needs, boundaries, and desires.
✓ Deep connection with a community of women who truly understand.
Welcome to The
Rewilding Desire Retreat
an intimate immersion to discover your authentic, erotic self.
When: January 7–12, 2027 ( 6 days /5 nights )
Where: Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, in a private luxury villa all for us.
Who: An intimate circle of 12 women ready to go deep, and claim their true erotic nature.
What's included:
- 6 days /5 nights of life-changing education, embodiment and connection with women like you.
- Two chef-prepared meals each day & lodging
- Private whale watching excursion in Bahía de Banderas.
- Full 5-pillar curriculum, facilitated by Maraya & Eva
Retreat Investment
This isn't just a retreat fee. It's the price of admission back into your own skin, and the sooner you say yes, the sooner you step into the life you want more of.
Early Bird - Reserve by September 30
$5,000 program + $2,500 room & board
$6,500 total
Reserve by October 31
$5,500 program + $2,500 room & board
$7,000 total
November Registration
$6,500 program + $2,500 room & board
$8,000 total
Come With a Friend & Save $1,000 Each
Share a double room with a friend and each receive $1,000 off your program price.
The Location
A private luxury villa in the heart of Puerto Vallarta, with ocean views and sunsets that will take your breath away.
Because it’s high whale-watching season, you can watch humback whales breach right from our deck.
Picture sun-washed gathering rooms in neutral tones and organic textures, a dining table long enough for the whole circle to gather, an outdoor bar pouring the villa's signature cucumber habanero margarita, and a staff so warm and attentive you'll feel like family before the week is out.
Have a room all to yourself, or share with a friend.
This is where you'll unwind, integrate, and come home to your body.
Day-By-Day Breakdown
Day 1: Arrival: Grounding & Safety.
Evening: Sink into the villa as the sun drops into the Pacific. Meet the women who will hold this week with you over a scrumptious welcome feast, and an opening circle that lets your body finally exhale.
Day 2: The Science of Desire.
Morning: Ocean-view coffee, then a teaching on the actual science of female libido and arousal, the hormones, nervous system, and brain chemistry, so you finally understand how your body works, and why it's been doing exactly what it's built to do.
Afternoon: Attunement work, to a partner, to yourself, to the parts of you that have been waiting to be met. Free time to swim, nap, journal or shop.
Evening: A long dinner at the villa's grand table, where connection keeps unfolding.
Day 3: Erotic Psychology - Unleashing Desire.
Morning: Sensual movement practice to loosen what the body's been holding.
Afternoon: Group work to shed the beliefs and inherited shame that have quietly decided what you're allowed to want.
Evening: Storytelling by firelight, and a circle that goes deep.
Day 4: Becoming Her.
Morning: An embodiment practice devoted to the woman you're becoming.
Afternoon: Archetypal exercises to summon the lost or disavowed parts of self that hold erotic aliveness.
Evening: A celebration dinner honoring who's emerging.
Day 5: Coming Alive
Morning: A somatic practice to access sxual energy in the pelvis and body.
Afternoon: Eros and the Ocean: Private whale watching excursion in Bahia de Banderas.
Evening: The experience peaks: dancing, celebration, and a closing ceremony that honors just how alive you are.
Day 6: Integration & Departure
Morning: A slow morning and a final circle to gather everything you're carrying home.
Afternoon: Departures, and goodbyes that feel more like see you soons.
Turn-On Takes more than just lingerie, toys, or ‘being in the mood’.
Desire is an intelligent interplay between your erotic psyche, your nervous system, brain and hormones.
Rewilding Desire Incorporates the five Facets of Female Desire:
facet 1
Biology & Body: The hormonal and cellular truth of your body, and the nervous system safety it needs.
facet 2
Relational Connection: Desire is relational, built through attunement to a partner, and to yourself.
facet 3
Erotic Psychology: Untangling the beliefs that quietly decide what you're allowed to want, so desire can finally be yours, without apology.
facet 4
Self & Identity: Greet the parts of yourself you haven't fully met yet, and knowing what she actually wants.
facet 5
Life Energy & Eros: Your libido runs on the same vitality that fuels the rest of your life
MEet your Guides
Eva Clay, MSW, LCSW
I know this path because I’ve walked it.
For five long years, while I journeyed the underworld of perimenopause, my body felt like a stranger. My libido took a nosedive. Pleasure felt distant, and my identity as a sensual woman seemed to slip through my fingers. And even though I’m a sex therapist with all the tools and knowledge, I struggled, too.
But I refused to believe that was the end of my sexuality or my radiance.
Being the academic I am, I went deeper into the neuroscience, nervous system functioning, the science of sexual arousal, and somatic healing - specific to the female arousal system.
Because what worked for me at 35 didn’t work for me anymore at 50.
And what I found wasn’t just a new frontier of eros, it was power.
A little bit more about my background…
I’ve been a sex educator, somatic psychotherapist, and academic for 25 years.
I’ve studied and practiced Classical and Neo-Tantra, Sexual Polarity, Authentic Relating, Sexual Shamanism, Erotic Blueprints and so much more. I learned there is a technology to attraction and fulfilling sex that empowers us to have harmonious and passionate relationships for the long term.
This is now what I offer you, with passion: 25 years of practice and academic study combined with my own lived experience.
Through the menage a’ trois of soul, science and sex, and an elegant marriage of the profound with the playful, I’m on a mission to inspire your intimate life.
May your relationships be wildly fulfilling, deeply devoted, and endlessly enchanted.
I’m told I give good permission.
Maraya Brown, CNM, MSN
Maraya Brown is a Yale-trained Certified Nurse Midwife and functional-medicine women's health expert, founder of The Women's Vibrancy Code and host of its globally ranked podcast.
She specializes in ambitious women in midlife, leaders, entrepreneurs, and legacy builders, who want their hormones, energy, libido, confidence, and vitality back, without burning themselves out to get there. With more than two decades of clinical experience spanning federally funded clinics, functional medicine practices, and international health work in Nicaragua, Ghana, and Haiti, Maraya now serves women worldwide through her online programs, courses, podcast, and in-person retreats.
Blending advanced lab testing, personalized nutrition, nervous-system regulation, and deep mindset work, Maraya calls herself a "midwife for women through chapters of change," helping them build lives of vibrant health, meaningful impact, and lasting legacy.
Her work has been featured in Forbes, Harper's Bazaar, and Women's Reporter.
“I discovered a whole new power within me.”
I came to Eva feeling isolated and ashamed about entering this stage of life. Eva’s work was totally transformative. Through it, I rediscovered the confidence to honor my inner voice. With Eva’s guidance, instead of ruminating on romantic relationships, I channeled my erotic energy into launching an exciting new business! I feel renewed energy and inspiration to achieve my dreams, and I’m not letting hangups about me age stop me!
I wholeheartedly endorse Eva’s expertise. It’s an empowering space for any woman navigating the inevitable changes that come with midlife.
- Donna Dyer, Founder of QuantumNap
“I was always shy and shut-down. Now at 55 I’m ready to enjoy myself!”
This has been the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. I was always afraid to own my feminine power, much less my pleasure. My marriage became stale because I was in my head all the time, and plus - sex started to hurt! Now I have access to my pleasure and playfulness. We’re both SO happy about it.
- Susan, Business Owner
FAQs
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YES. It’s a perfect time to transform old beliefs and replace them with new, empowering, pleasure-full practices that shift your “story”.
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This is precisely the belief the retreat is designed to interrupt. If your calendar has no room for five days
devoted to the thing underneath everything else you do, that scarcity is worth looking at directly — with
us, in the room, rather than alone at your desk. Five days is also, deliberately, the minimum needed for
real nervous system change to take hold; anything shorter tends to just be a nice trip.
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Most women who join us have. This retreat isn't another technique to add to the pile. It's the first time the
clinical piece (why this is happening in your body) and the somatic piece (how to actually feel different,
not just understand it intellectually) are held together, in person, over enough consecutive days for
something to actually shift. That combination is what most approaches are missing.
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Absolutely. All of our content is trauma-informed, and designed to support the unique journey of trauma survivors. If you have significant unresolved trauma, we do suggest to attend concurrent trauma therapy.
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Absolutely! In fact, we emphasize that turn-on, desire and libido is all for YOU, no one else, and teach you how pleasure is your most vital nutrient.
