I'm Eva, and I'm here to inspire your intimate life.

love is a beautiful aspect of being alive.

I’m a sexual revolutionary, relentlessly curious intellectual, and wild muse on a mission to make sex a spiritual practice.

Hello!

I thought you should know a little about my journey.

I have a life long fascination about how we express love - I consider it my soul’s purpose.

I’ve been a sex educator, psychotherapist, and academic for 25 years. (If you’re interested, you can see my Professional CV at the bottom of this page). But although I come from an academic background, my true calling arrived through a personal challenge.

Early in life, I met my first soulmate and we married. We had an incredible relationship, but after nearly a decade together, I lost my libido. Gone. And I couldn’t figure out how to get it back. I tried supplements, hypnosis, and a small fortune on therapy, trying to find out what was wrong with me.

I felt broken and blamed myself. My partner felt frustrated and unfulfilled. I wondered….

“Why don’t I enjoy intimacy? Is this all there is to sex?”

Even though I was a psychotherapist, I didn't understand my own erotic psyche, and how libido is inextricably woven with the nervous system, hormones and trauma. Unbelievably, they don't teach you this in grad school!

We unfortunately divorced, because we couldn’t recover our intimacy with the tools we had at the time. It was devastating, but it set me on my mission to understand the nature of desire and deep intimacy.

I suddenly found myself single in mid-life, and re-entering the dating world was bewildering (to say the least!) after being partnered for so long. I had NO idea how to navigate the morass of modern sex and love.

I was aching for real intimacy, but I didn't know how to let love in.

Being the academic I am, I threw myself into study and practice - including Tantra, Polarity, Authentic Relating, Sexual Shamanism, Erotic Blueprints and more. I learned there is a technology to attraction that empowers us to have wildly harmonious and passionate relationships for the long term.

Why doesn’t everybody have access to this information?!

This is now what I offer you, with passion: 25 years of academic study combined with my own lived experience.

Through the marriage of science and spirituality, I’m on a mission to inspire your intimate life.

May your relationships be wildly fulfilling, deeply devoted, and endlessly enchanted.

I’m told I give good permission.

All my love,

i’ve studied this question for two decades…

What Creates attraction?

Why do we feel turned on by some people but not others?

And how do we keep passion alive in a long term relationship?

Fulfilling intimacy is a science you can learn and enjoy!

i believe WE HAVE TO LOVE OURSELVES THE WAY WE LONG TO BE LOVED.

The way you feel about yourself informs the way you feel about your partner.

Eva holds certifications and training in:

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, The Ketamine Training Center with Phil Wolfson, M.D.
Somatic Internal Family Systems (IFS) or “Parts Work”, Level 3 Certification.
Psychobiological Couples Therapy (PACT) with Stan Tatkin, Ph.D.
Couples Therapy Training with Esther Perel, LMFT.
Imago Couples Therapy with Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
Gottman Couples Therapy with John Gottman, Ph.D.
Embodied Relational Sex Therapy with Stella Resnick, Ph.D.
Somatic Experiencing for trauma healing, with Peter Levine, Ph.D
Trauma Resolution methodologies with Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D., and Babette Rothschild, LCSW.

Interpersonal Neurobiology with Dan Siegel, M.D.
Relational Gestalt Therapy - 12 years of formal training at Esalen Institute and Pacific Gestalt Institute.
Sexual Tantra: 12 years - with Dawn Cartwright, Shakti Malan, Charles Muir, and many others.
Hypnotherapy - Two certifications, in Eriksonian Hypnosis and Heart-Centered Hypnotherapy.
Kundalini Yoga (KRI Certified) with Guru Singh at Yoga West in Los Angeles.
Mindfulness-Based Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff, Ph.D