BLOGS
Menopause is an Ego Death, and I've Got You.
Menopause is an Ego Death, and I've Got You.

I am officially in menopause. Your congratulations are welcomed!

You might be thinking this is brave or un-sexy to “admit”, but one of the greatest gifts of menopause is that you stop caring. What delicious freedom!! And for f*ckssake, every woman will go through it. Why don’t we talk about it? I refuse any shame-narrative that we become less attractive if we do.

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The Night I Got Lost
The Night I Got Lost

As a fiercely independent, self-proclaimed “alpha woman”, it was in the darkest surge of the pandemic that I turned 50….

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Prepare to be Disappointed in Your "King".
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What If You (or Your Partner) Needs Clitoral Stimulation?
What If You (or Your Partner) Needs Clitoral Stimulation?

“What if  your partner needs clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm?”  This was the title of a video recently published by a male s@x coach. I felt furious, exasperated, in disbelief.

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What If I Don't Orgasm?
What If I Don't Orgasm?
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Is Your P*ssy Magic?
Is Your P*ssy Magic?
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How To Get Turned On by a Woman
How To Get Turned On by a Woman
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Make Love to Your Demon
Make Love to Your Demon
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Pleasure and Pain
Pleasure and Pain
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To Find Big Love You Must Stop Playing Small
To Find Big Love You Must Stop Playing Small
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Can A Woman Have Casual Sex?
Can A Woman Have Casual Sex?
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Why You're Obsessing On Him
Why You're Obsessing On Him
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Loneliness Is Your Lover
Loneliness Is Your Lover
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Desire
Desire
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How To Have a Big, Fat, F-ing Juicy Everything
How To Have a Big, Fat, F-ing Juicy Everything
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The Modern Woman Smiles With a Cosmic Secret (She Knows God Is In Her Panties)
The Modern Woman Smiles With a Cosmic Secret (She Knows God Is In Her Panties)
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When You Really Just Need to Lay Down
When You Really Just Need to Lay Down
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PODCASTS
From Hot Flashes to Hot Sxx with Layla Martin
From Hot Flashes to Hot Sxx with Layla Martin
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Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy for Women
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy for Women
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Sex, Passion and Menopause on Channel Your Genius Podcast with Mellissa Seaman
Sex, Passion and Menopause on Channel Your Genius Podcast with Mellissa Seaman

Sex, Passion and Menopause
on Channel Your Genius Podcast with Mellissa Seaman

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Claiming Your Sexual Power in Midlife on Hotter than Ever Podcast
Claiming Your Sexual Power in Midlife on Hotter than Ever Podcast

Claiming Your Sexual Power in Midlife
on Hotter than Ever Podcast

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"Menopause & Neuroscience" on the Sluts & Scholars Podcast
"Menopause & Neuroscience" on the Sluts & Scholars Podcast
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"Pandemic Sex" with Melissa Rivers
"Pandemic Sex" with Melissa Rivers

This sexy, sensual, and smart advice will light up your love life.

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"How to Date Without Losing Your Mind" - Truth Telling with Elizabeth DiAlto
"How to Date Without Losing Your Mind" - Truth Telling with Elizabeth DiAlto

Advice for the Sex and Love You Crave, on Truth Telling with Elizabeth DiAlto

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"Dating Tips for Women Over 40" - Sex, Love and Superpowers
"Dating Tips for Women Over 40" - Sex, Love and Superpowers

Dating Tips for Women Over 40, on Sex, Love and Superpowers with Tatiana Berindei

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"Communication Skills for Sexual Pleasure" - Eat, Play, Sex with Dr. Cat Meyer
"Communication Skills for Sexual Pleasure" - Eat, Play, Sex with Dr. Cat Meyer

Skills for Communication and Sexual Pleasure, On Eat, Play, Sex with Dr. Cat Meyer

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"The Science of Sex and Pleasure" - Ignite Intimacy with Laura Aiisha
"The Science of Sex and Pleasure" - Ignite Intimacy with Laura Aiisha

The Science of Sex and Pleasure Technology, on Ignite Intimacy

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VIDEO Appearances
Sex and the Single Woman - on Sassy and Single with Natalie Sady
Sex and the Single Woman - on Sassy and Single with Natalie Sady
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Pleasure, Self Love and Confidence, on Coffee Tea or Sex? with Karina Velaso
Pleasure, Self Love and Confidence, on Coffee Tea or Sex? with Karina Velaso
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How to Keep Your Sanity in Dating
How to Keep Your Sanity in Dating
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Sex is Not What You Think It Is
Sex is Not What You Think It Is
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Sacred Sex, Orgasm, and Pleasure!
Sacred Sex, Orgasm, and Pleasure!

Sacred Sex, Orgasm, and Pleasure! On Money, Sex and God with Genevieve Rudolph

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What Makes Sex Great?
What Makes Sex Great?
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Cultivating Sexual Confidence
Cultivating Sexual Confidence
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🌟 There's a lot of talk about "The Queen Years" for women in midlife as an alternative to the Crone. I think that's great. But for me, the flavor of my power comes from anarchy. From the darkness and the wild. It comes from the Witch. 🌟
🔥 You know I’m super passionate about helping women through the profound and often difficult #menopause transition. For perspective, It’s a huge chunk of our lives…three to ten years. THREE TO TEN YEARS of a woman’s life! ?
"I look in the mirror and I don't recognize myself anymore!" ...😮...I hear this daily from women. One of the most distressing parts of the #menopause transition is the shift in self-perception. It's as if somebody put a new lens on your vi
The Passage Through Peri-Menopause: You are not crazy… 👑 My last post about peri-menopause struck a pain point: the appalling lack of support for women in and approaching this stage. 👑 During my 5 year odyssey through this transition, I co